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Oct 01 2008

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Kevin Bussey

Sweet Home Alabama…

Well, this has been an interesting year to say the least.  God has taught me so much about His will and provision.  Last year “I” decided that we weren’t going to move.  That decision has been met with many challenges.  I rationalized it by saying I didn’t want to uproot my children, we were tired of moving, etc…. God even opened up a door for ministry right here in Charlotte.  I’m grateful for being able to serve at North Point Charlotte.  We have seen many people give their lives to Christ and I am grateful for Pastor Don and his friendship.

But it became apparent that the church was not going to be able to bring me on full-time, as was planned by the first of 2009.  In fact, I don’t know how much longer they could financially support me at all.  The church is growing, just not enough to support another full-time staff member. We believed in what God was doing so much that I took out some of my retirement money and have been working a 2nd job in order to minister here.  But the strain has become too much for all involved.

My favorite ministry job was while I was planting a church in Atlanta.  It was a part-time ministry as a Corporate Chaplain.  I would drive all over Atlanta and minister in the workplace to employees of the companies that had signed on with the chaplain company I ministered for.  I looked into going full-time with them, but unfortunately they don’t hire full-time chaplains, only part time. 

Recently, I was approached by another ministry called Corporate Chaplains of America about becoming an Area Director. They were looking for unique individuals that met their three requirements: 1) Business degree 2) Masters in Divinity 3) Church Planting Experience.  I meet all three of those requirements.  They talked to me about moving West to start CCA in a frontier area.  I won’t say where because I don’t want to offend anyone for not going to your city, but it was West of the South.

I met with one of the VP’s and we hit it off immediately.  He is a former church planter and this Area Director position was his idea.  He desires for guys to go into an area and start this ministry like they would with a church plant. He then talked with Cassandra and told her where they were talking about moving us if we felt called to this position.  I could see the tears in her eyes as he talked about the position, not because she didn’t like the Corporate Chaplaincy, but because of moving, yet again.  

They asked me to write out a potential launch plan in an area that I was passionate about and I was told Charlotte was not an option.  I couldn’t narrow it down to one, so I chose Atlanta and Birmingham.  We loved living in Atlanta and I know lots of people there.  Birmingham is probably my favorite city.  Cassandra and I went to college at Samford University and the University of Alabama @ Birmingham.  I also grew up in nearby Tuscaloosa (Roll Tide #2 in the AP Poll).  I then drove up to Wake Forest, NC for a set of interviews with the founder/president and all of the leadership of CCA. Wow, was I impressed. Just this last year with 100 full-time chaplains they have led 1600 people to Christ.

Cassandra and I prayed all week and when the VP called back a few days later and I told him that we had concerns about moving across the world and were still struggling with the decison.  He provided us with one more state as an option, but this still concerned us.  However, during the weekend God was working on Cassandra and by Sunday she said we needed to go to “X” city for certain reasons.  We then told our son Jacob about the possibility and he took it as well as could be expected.

The next day I talked with our pastor about life and it became apparent after our conversation that it would be best for us and the financial strain on the church for me to move on.  God was confirming our decision. I was not going to be Jonah anymore. I had told God we weren’t moving to Ft. Worth in 1991 and God had a way of kicking my tail and we ended up in Ft. Worth in 1992.

I called the VP later that day and told him we had prayed, made a decision and if they still wanted us, we were willing to move to “X” city and begin the ministry there.  He said what if an opportunity opened up in Atlanta or Birmingham?  I thought, don’t toy with me. :)  Anyway, he called me back 2 days later and said they wanted to have us move to Birmingham as an Area Director.  A few months ago (some may remember) I wrote a post where I wrote out a check to God for “Whatever.”  When we are willing to do whatever God desires, He gives us the desires of our hearts.  

So what will I be doing?  Look at the video below

Here’s what I’m up to right now.  The position will require me to raise $10K before November, CCA will raise $25K from some of their companies they presently serve.  Thankfully I am up to $6K as of this posting. I need to raise $4K more in the next few weeks but will not have to ask for money again because the companies I serve will pay my salary.  My ministry will involve being a chaplain to 500 employees and seeking new businesses for our ministry, to serve in Alabama.  We are excited about the ministry but sad to be leaving Charlotte.  Is it OK to be excited and sad at the same time? 

We told our children this weekend and it was hard, but they are accepting it.  Jacob and I were playing PS2 NCAA 08 football and he created his own player “Jacob Bussey”.  He typed in the hometown of “Birmingham” and looked over at me and smiled.  It hit me in the gut pretty good. Hope is one that internalizes everything, so we shall see how she does.  I will be leaving for training in Wake Forest by Nov. 1 for 6 weeks, and that will be hard.  Plus, we have to sell a home in a strange market.

I appreciate your prayers and if you know of any businesses in Alabama that might be interested in CCA, let me know. If you would like to help support me and reach the $4K I have left to raise, email me at bamabusman@yahoo.com and I’ll give you the details.

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Sep 05 2008

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Kevin Bussey

Confessions of a Barista (in training)

Filed under coffee, faith, life, ministry, people, prayer

The last two weeks have been extremely busy, stressful, tiring, exciting, up, down, frustrating, exhilarating, confusing, etc…. If you can say a prayer for our house, I would appreciate it. I’ve always worked hard but I haven’t worked two or more jobs in a while. When we planted our church in Atlanta I did work a 2nd job as a corporate chaplain but it fit in perfectly with my pastoral position.

Working full-time at a church (doing 5 different jobs) and learning a new job in the coffee industry has been challenging to say the least. It is always hard to be the new person at any place of employment.  My new co-workers have been extremely helpful. In fact, I’m very impressed with this company.  They throughly train you and I’ve learned a great deal about coffee.  The manager said I’m a quick learner and I will be in management myself real soon.  Yesterday I actually made lattes, espressos, etc…  It is fun and stressful.  Our store is in a mall area of the largest bank in America so we are crowded almost all day long. Being the newby is tough but I’m taking the jabs and giving them back. :)

I don’t know if anyone has figured out who I am or what other job I do unless the manager has told them. He and I have had some interesting spiritual conversations.  Right now I’m just working hard and trying to be productive.  My prayer is God will just use me and when I’m given opportunities to share my faith I will.

If I seem to not to be around at much it is because I’m not. I working 2 full-time jobs so we can minister at a mission church and pay our bills.  But God has given me another ministry for now in Uptown Charlotte. Thanks for your prayers. 

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Aug 27 2008

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Kevin Bussey

Flexibility

Filed under flexibility, jobs, ministry

I was supposed to start my Uptown Barista job on Monday.  But they were having computer problems so the manager backed it up until Tuesday. Then he called and said the computers were still down so he changed it until Wednesday.

At the church, especially since we are new, changes happen almost hourly.  We have to be ready to change our plans because stuff happens.  Whether it is the AC not working or a musician that can’t be there or a preschool teacher who is sick.

I learned a long time ago that the key word in ministry is “FLEXIBILITY.”  If you aren’t flexible then you will be left behind and be extremely frustrated.  I am a organized person (except for my desk).  I have always planned out my days down to the minute to get the most out of my schedule.  However, there were always interruptions and distractions that arose and changed my plans.  After reading and going to leadership conferences I realized those were actually opportunities for ministry.

Then I went to a Franklin-Covey seminar that taught me that the reason I was frustrated with my schedule is that it was unreasonable. No day goes 100% as planned.  You have to build in wiggle room.  You have to be flexible.  First, I started figuring out what were the most important things that absolutely had to be accomplished and I ranked them as “A” events.  One way or another I would finish them each day.  Then I would rank “B” events.  These are important but sometimes they could be rescheduled or even cancelled if needed.  Then there are “C” events which are nice but aren’t necessary for my day to be a success.  

What happens with many people is we have a check list of 10 things and we check off 9 of them.  But we aren’t successful because the one we left off was an “A” event.  Sometimes it is the #1 “A” event! When I started planning my days this way I became “less” frustrated with my days.  

So the key word in ministry is “FLEXIBILITY.”  What have you learned that could help me or others in time management?

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Aug 11 2008

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Kevin Bussey

what God told me

Let me say that I’ve never heard God speak in an audible voice.  For those who have it makes hearing God easier.  But I have heard God speak to me through the years in various ways.  But there have been a few times where God spoke in my mind and heart unmistakably.  Friday at the Leadership Summit was one of those days.

For anyone who has met my wife Cassandra, you know what a special woman she is.  We have a special relationship that I can’t explain.  We are very connected spiritually and emotionally.  She is a gifted person in so many ways. I would dare say that there are people at many of the churches we served that were more upset that she left than me.

Almost everywhere we have served we have served separately.  We served in the same church but we would serve in different areas.  We thought that was OK because we were passionate about jumping in where we were needed.

When I was on staff in Jacksonville, NC I was being stretched in many directions so, Cass jumped in to lead the preschool department.  The personnel committee wanted to hire a full-time person but the pastor said why should we pay someone when we have Cassandra.  I didn’t think it was very funny.

When God called us to plant a church I should have been listening to what God was telling us.  We were assessed for church planting at the North American Mission Board (NAMB) and they told us that I scored well as a church planter but they gave us the highest rank you could get as a couple.  But we have never served in the same area together.

Then we interviewed with a mega church in Greensboro, NC a few years ago and the Executive Pastor couldn’t get over how well we worked together.   Later that summer we talked to another mega church in Austin, TX about starting a church with them.  During one of the interviews the Lead Pastor couldn’t stop smiling as he watched Cassandra and me talk.  He finally stopped and said you two are very connected.  He said he had never seen such a connection.  We laughed it off but have never served together in the same area.

Last year when we resigned our former church one of the reasons we decided to leave is that we wanted to serve as a family and not be divided on Sundays.  But again, each Sunday, I go one way and Cassandra goes another.  

Friday Cassandra was at home dealing with the AC people and I was telling our worship leader about it.  I joked and said they don’t want to mess with Cassandra because the Social Worker comes out in her and she is a bulldog when it comes to advocating for others –now she is advocating for us.  Susan made some comment about how talented Cassandra is and so did Lynn our other staff member.  Our pastor made a comment last week about how gifted Cassandra was as he watched her greeting people at a church event. Yet again, we weren’t serving together.

A few years ago Cassandra was over working in her volunteering so I tried to rescue her.  But I’ll never forget what she told me.  

She said, “have you ever thought that God has called me too?”

Wow, she was right.  Whenever she speaks she speaks with power.  She has a gift to speak to women.  She has them listening and before long they are in tears.  I joke and tell her she is “Beth Moore.”  She doesn’t like that. But she is that gifted.

So all of this is to tell you what God told me on Friday.  But really He has been telling me this for at least 10 years.  He told me while I was listening to Bill Hybels and then a video they showed at the Leadership Summit called “Here am I send me.”  What did God tell me?  

God said, “You and Cassandra are to be doing ministry together.”

Now I don’t know what this all means.  It won’t happen today or tomorrow. It may be a few years away.  But I heard God loud and clear. We are so much more effective (at least I am) when we work together. So I’m ready to see what God is going to do with all of this.  

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Jul 10 2008

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Would you have stopped?

[BBC News]

 

A minister posed as a tramp and gatecrashed his own service to teach churchgoers about “acceptance”.

The Reverend Derek Rigby donned a wig and some torn clothes and surrounded himself with lager cans and syringes in the church doorway on Sunday morning.

Most of the congregation at the Trinity Methodist Church in Prestatyn, Denbighshire, ignored the intruder.

The vicar said most were “embarrassed” by their behaviour when he finally revealed himself during the service.

The former police officer had told the congregation he would be late for Sunday’s service, and only informed one church member of his true plans, in case anyone decided to dial 999.

Read more here.

[From me]

Matthew 25:35-36

For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.

I wonder if I would have stopped. Looks can be deceiving. God loves everyone yet we build churches in suburban areas to reach those who look good.  We give a dollar here and there.  But do we really want them in our church or homes?  Ouch!  That will preach.

What do you think?

 

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