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Oct 01 2008

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Kevin Bussey

Sweet Home Alabama…

Well, this has been an interesting year to say the least.  God has taught me so much about His will and provision.  Last year “I” decided that we weren’t going to move.  That decision has been met with many challenges.  I rationalized it by saying I didn’t want to uproot my children, we were tired of moving, etc…. God even opened up a door for ministry right here in Charlotte.  I’m grateful for being able to serve at North Point Charlotte.  We have seen many people give their lives to Christ and I am grateful for Pastor Don and his friendship.

But it became apparent that the church was not going to be able to bring me on full-time, as was planned by the first of 2009.  In fact, I don’t know how much longer they could financially support me at all.  The church is growing, just not enough to support another full-time staff member. We believed in what God was doing so much that I took out some of my retirement money and have been working a 2nd job in order to minister here.  But the strain has become too much for all involved.

My favorite ministry job was while I was planting a church in Atlanta.  It was a part-time ministry as a Corporate Chaplain.  I would drive all over Atlanta and minister in the workplace to employees of the companies that had signed on with the chaplain company I ministered for.  I looked into going full-time with them, but unfortunately they don’t hire full-time chaplains, only part time. 

Recently, I was approached by another ministry called Corporate Chaplains of America about becoming an Area Director. They were looking for unique individuals that met their three requirements: 1) Business degree 2) Masters in Divinity 3) Church Planting Experience.  I meet all three of those requirements.  They talked to me about moving West to start CCA in a frontier area.  I won’t say where because I don’t want to offend anyone for not going to your city, but it was West of the South.

I met with one of the VP’s and we hit it off immediately.  He is a former church planter and this Area Director position was his idea.  He desires for guys to go into an area and start this ministry like they would with a church plant. He then talked with Cassandra and told her where they were talking about moving us if we felt called to this position.  I could see the tears in her eyes as he talked about the position, not because she didn’t like the Corporate Chaplaincy, but because of moving, yet again.  

They asked me to write out a potential launch plan in an area that I was passionate about and I was told Charlotte was not an option.  I couldn’t narrow it down to one, so I chose Atlanta and Birmingham.  We loved living in Atlanta and I know lots of people there.  Birmingham is probably my favorite city.  Cassandra and I went to college at Samford University and the University of Alabama @ Birmingham.  I also grew up in nearby Tuscaloosa (Roll Tide #2 in the AP Poll).  I then drove up to Wake Forest, NC for a set of interviews with the founder/president and all of the leadership of CCA. Wow, was I impressed. Just this last year with 100 full-time chaplains they have led 1600 people to Christ.

Cassandra and I prayed all week and when the VP called back a few days later and I told him that we had concerns about moving across the world and were still struggling with the decison.  He provided us with one more state as an option, but this still concerned us.  However, during the weekend God was working on Cassandra and by Sunday she said we needed to go to “X” city for certain reasons.  We then told our son Jacob about the possibility and he took it as well as could be expected.

The next day I talked with our pastor about life and it became apparent after our conversation that it would be best for us and the financial strain on the church for me to move on.  God was confirming our decision. I was not going to be Jonah anymore. I had told God we weren’t moving to Ft. Worth in 1991 and God had a way of kicking my tail and we ended up in Ft. Worth in 1992.

I called the VP later that day and told him we had prayed, made a decision and if they still wanted us, we were willing to move to “X” city and begin the ministry there.  He said what if an opportunity opened up in Atlanta or Birmingham?  I thought, don’t toy with me. :)  Anyway, he called me back 2 days later and said they wanted to have us move to Birmingham as an Area Director.  A few months ago (some may remember) I wrote a post where I wrote out a check to God for “Whatever.”  When we are willing to do whatever God desires, He gives us the desires of our hearts.  

So what will I be doing?  Look at the video below

Here’s what I’m up to right now.  The position will require me to raise $10K before November, CCA will raise $25K from some of their companies they presently serve.  Thankfully I am up to $6K as of this posting. I need to raise $4K more in the next few weeks but will not have to ask for money again because the companies I serve will pay my salary.  My ministry will involve being a chaplain to 500 employees and seeking new businesses for our ministry, to serve in Alabama.  We are excited about the ministry but sad to be leaving Charlotte.  Is it OK to be excited and sad at the same time? 

We told our children this weekend and it was hard, but they are accepting it.  Jacob and I were playing PS2 NCAA 08 football and he created his own player “Jacob Bussey”.  He typed in the hometown of “Birmingham” and looked over at me and smiled.  It hit me in the gut pretty good. Hope is one that internalizes everything, so we shall see how she does.  I will be leaving for training in Wake Forest by Nov. 1 for 6 weeks, and that will be hard.  Plus, we have to sell a home in a strange market.

I appreciate your prayers and if you know of any businesses in Alabama that might be interested in CCA, let me know. If you would like to help support me and reach the $4K I have left to raise, email me at bamabusman@yahoo.com and I’ll give you the details.

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Sep 12 2008

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Kevin Bussey

Dry

Filed under dry, faith, family, life

I want to say first that I am a blessed man and very grateful for God and what he has done for me.  This is not a post about woe is me, so please don’t try to console me because I’m fine–or I will be.  But I have always been real and transparent so why stop now.

I’m tired.  I’m very tired.  My mind and my body are exhausted. Spiritually I’m reading and studying my Bible but it seems like God has not made it clear what He is doing.  Maybe I’m not ready to know yet.  The country is hurting financially and we are in that group.  I like working at a large Coffee chain because I get to be around people I would never meet.  Unfortunately it doesn’t pay enough to pay the bills.  Now some money is better than none so I’m grateful for what I have.

I have a new appreciation for single parents and others who work multiple jobs just to put food on the table.  I haven’t worked this hard in years.  It is tiring to come home from one job and have to do work for the other and help my children with their homework.  Then to try to connect with my best friend Cassandra. I wonder if I’m effective at anything I do. I guess time will tell. I’ve had several opportunities to talk about God at the coffee shop so there are great things happening. I know God has a reason for all of this.  I don’t have to understand now.  God doesn’t owe me anything but death so I won’t complain.  I’m just tired and weary.  I remember Henry Blackaby saying that during the dry times God is preparing a person for something greater.  I’m ready.

I’ll leave you with the words of Jesus in Matthew 11:28-30

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

 

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Sep 05 2008

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Confessions of a Barista (in training)

Filed under coffee, faith, life, ministry, people, prayer

The last two weeks have been extremely busy, stressful, tiring, exciting, up, down, frustrating, exhilarating, confusing, etc…. If you can say a prayer for our house, I would appreciate it. I’ve always worked hard but I haven’t worked two or more jobs in a while. When we planted our church in Atlanta I did work a 2nd job as a corporate chaplain but it fit in perfectly with my pastoral position.

Working full-time at a church (doing 5 different jobs) and learning a new job in the coffee industry has been challenging to say the least. It is always hard to be the new person at any place of employment.  My new co-workers have been extremely helpful. In fact, I’m very impressed with this company.  They throughly train you and I’ve learned a great deal about coffee.  The manager said I’m a quick learner and I will be in management myself real soon.  Yesterday I actually made lattes, espressos, etc…  It is fun and stressful.  Our store is in a mall area of the largest bank in America so we are crowded almost all day long. Being the newby is tough but I’m taking the jabs and giving them back. :)

I don’t know if anyone has figured out who I am or what other job I do unless the manager has told them. He and I have had some interesting spiritual conversations.  Right now I’m just working hard and trying to be productive.  My prayer is God will just use me and when I’m given opportunities to share my faith I will.

If I seem to not to be around at much it is because I’m not. I working 2 full-time jobs so we can minister at a mission church and pay our bills.  But God has given me another ministry for now in Uptown Charlotte. Thanks for your prayers. 

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Aug 22 2008

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Kevin Bussey

Confessions of a barista

Many of you know that I serve on staff at a new church in NW Charlotte.  I know God called us to serve here but unfortunately the church can’t bring on a full-time salaried person quite yet.  I’ve been looking all summer for a 2nd job. As most of you know I used to hang out at Starbucks every day to pray, read, study and meet people.  It was a great experience.  Unfortunately I haven’t been doing that since I resigned my former church for obvious reasons! $$$$

My wife and I were in Uptown (downtown for other cities) Charlotte walking around.  Uptown Charlotte is a cool place.  If we didn’t have children at home I would love to live there.  I love big cities and Uptown has the feel of a little NYC.  People are moving in droves to the condos and townhomes in Uptown.  While we were walking around I saw a competitor to Starbucks coffee shop that had a sign looking for employees.  So 2 days later I applied for a job.  I actually interviewed with the manager and participated in an in store experience.  I thought for sure the manager was going to offer me a job but he told me later that week that he wasn’t going to get to hire anyone until maybe the fall.

In the mean time I applied at another of the Starbucks competitors (online) in the building of the largest bank in America.  That was 3 weeks ago.  On Monday I called the 1st store back and asked if business had gotten better and he said no so I pretty much ruled it out.  Then on Tuesday I met my friend Mike Landrum at the Starbucks I used to go to on a regular basis and I was about to apply for a position there.  But I overheard the manager say that they were one of the casualties of the Starbucks closure.  I never realized that my stopping to hang out there would cause them to close! :)

After having lunch with Mike Landrum I got a call from the 2nd store manager of the Starbucks rival store and he wanted to meet with me.  He knows the other manager and he believes the reason he didn’t hire me was because of my faith.  But this manager has no problem with me.  So yesterday I did another in store experience and it was great. In fact the 1st manager walked in to get some straws and my new manger got a kick out of it.  I hold no grudge and know that God had His reasons.  I even had a chance to talk about God’s will vs. fate.  

I’m not there to convert people and I have no ulterior motives other than I need the money.  But I don’t believe God allows things to happen by accident.  I’m praying that my book, Confessions of a Recovering Pharisee will be accepted by the literary agent that I have been talking with.  But I already have another book in mind called “CONFESSIONS OF A BARISTA.” 

I can’t wait to the stories I will get from working in the real world.  I’m excited about working in Uptown Charlotte because I see a real need for God among the people who live and work there. Camey Gravley affectionately calls her husband the “Wal-Mart” pastor so maybe I can be the “Coffee Pastor.” Should be an interesting ride!

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Aug 21 2008

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Kevin Bussey

whoever finds life will lose it?

Filed under Jesus, faith, life, sacrifice

Matthew 10:39

Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.

What does that mean for those of us who live in the wealthiest country in the world?  Suffering for some of us is to cut out a vacation because of the economy.  Maybe we have to downsize or get a 2nd or 3rd job. But what about those in the world who have to give up everything to follow Jesus?  In Muslim countries if a person becomes a follower of Jesus they are disowned by their family.  In the eyes of their family they are dead.

So what does it mean to lose our lives here in the US?  What does it mean to take up our cross in the US?  Is suffering having to drop cable TV?  Is suffering having less Starbucks?  Somehow I think the American church has it all wrong (me included).

What have you lost for Jesus?

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