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Sep 18 2008

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Kevin Bussey

Should one off-color comment drown out the author’s point?

Here are two stories from a “Journalism Major” California State University in Sacremento, CA named Briana Monasky. It is scary to think people have such little use of the English language and think it is OK to use profanity and ugly language to get their point across. 

Here is her first Article. [The State Hornet]

The 2008 presidential campaign has been a major interest and concern for me, as it should be for any college student with the ability to exercise their right to vote their conscience.

The Republican pick for vice president, Gov. Sarah Palin, is appalling and offensive to any woman - no, any human being - with a brain and an ounce of self-respect. Palin is no feminist. Her policies on abortion and sex education make me hope I never have a daughter that could be affected by them.

This is a woman who cut sex education funding in Alaska and ended up with a 17-year-old knocked up by a hockey player. Beyond that, Palin and other Republicans preach abstinence-only sex education campaigns that don’t work. Remember that string of pregnant girls in Massachusetts? Those girls complained on national television that they couldn’t get birth control. What a nation we live in.

In Palin’s release regarding the pregnant teen, she said that she and her husband were “proud of Bristol’s decision to have her baby and even prouder to become grandparents.” I suppose that must be true considering her policy on abortion. Palin is vehemently pro-life. In fact, she is committed, along with McCain, to overturning Roe v. Wade. She doesn’t approve of abortion even in cases of rape and incest.

That may be my main issue with Palin, the first female candidate for this position. This should be monumental. I should be incredibly proud to finally see a woman on the stage. Instead, I am ashamed that my country is letting her run. When I hear that women are pro-life I simply don’t understand. Beyond that, as a victim of sexual assault I consider it devastating to think that a woman may have to carry a child to term conceived from an act of hate. I hope her dad rapes her and she has to carry that child to term. I bet you she wouldn’t. I bet she’d grab a coat hanger herself and take care of it.

Read more here.

Then she tries to justify herself here:

Words are powerful. Believe me, I get it. I am a journalism major with a capital ‘J.’ However, to think that in any way, shape or form I could actually literally mean harm upon Sarah Palin is ridiculous. Were you joking with all of these comments and letters? You had to be. No one could really think I would mean that, right? Apparently not. Apparently I need to clarify what I meant.

As the sister of a stand-up comedian, I think vulgarity can be useful to demonstrate a point, whether it be humorous or shocking. In this case, I was simply saying that Palin, under a tragic circumstance such as rape, and worse, the incestuous variety, would not choose to carry the child to term. Did it come across well in the piece? Absolutely not. Do I regret it? Absolutely not.

Perhaps I should enlighten all of the people who were kind enough to make comments (17 so far) on the website or wrote letters to the editor. I do not mince my words. There is no brunoise involved.

I understand quite well the complexity of the abortion issue. It seems that half the people want the option, and the other half consider it a done deal once that egg is fertilized. That has nothing to do with my column. To be honest, the fact that I centered the piece around the issue was a bad idea in the first place. No matter what my statements were, someone was bound to end up angry. I focused on the sex education and abortion because of the buzz around Bristol’s pregnancy. These reasons are not the only ones that urge me to not agree with Palin.

All anger aside, I stand behind the statements I made about her. One line lacked eloquence, but it was supposed to. To take what I said and somehow attribute it to who I am as a person is equally offensive. To question whether I am, in fact, a victim of sexual assault is inexcusable. Anyone who went through what I did would feel the same. Furthermore, to infer that I am in any way an emotionally unstable person is reaching. I am up front about my experiences. I may have joked about the subject matter, but believe me: I take sexual assault seriously.

My only regret comes from the disappointment in realizing that you all got so hung up on one sentence that you missed the whole point; so hung up that you accused me of fabricating a personal experience that will haunt me forever. I am not trying to work out my issues on paper, simply trying to open your eyes to people’s policies by comparing them with parts of who I am.

Read more here.

[From me]

Ms. Monasky is that what they are teaching you in journalism school?  Your own candidate said that families were off limits.  You are just an angry misguided young woman.  You are obviously too young to know that every word you say has meaning. What you said was offensive and instead of apologizing you try to justify yourself. People with integrity learn from their mistakes, apologize, change and move on.  Those with an axe to grind will make excuses for their behavior and try to make others feel bad. I hold no ill will towards you.  In the past I probably would have said some ugly things about you but I just feel sorry for you.  I will pray that God will change your angry spirit.

What do you think?

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Sep 11 2008

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Grad Selling Her Virginity For Tuition

Filed under abstinence, sad, sex

[CBS 13]

 A Sacramento State grad is trying to make money the old fashioned way, by auctioning off her virginity to help pay for her graduate studies.   And so far, bidding is up to $250,000.

The 21-year-old who is using the pseudonym Natalie Dylan for safety reasons is going through a legal brothel in Nevada to sell her virginity. Dylan says she’s already taken a polygraph test to prove her virginal status, and is also willing to undergo a medical exam. 

Read more here.

[From me]

How sad.  God intended sex to be between a husband and wife.  This misguided woman is giving away something special to a stranger.  She may as well go to the street corner. I don’t get it.

What do you think?

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Jun 11 2008

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Safe Sex isn’t working…

Filed under abstinence, sex

[WCBS]

According to the study, 26 percent of city residents have the virus that causes genital herpes, an incurable sexually-transmitted infection that can cause painful genital sores and can double a person’s risk for HIV.

Nationally, 19 percent of the population has the infection, according to the department.

More specifically, the study showed that the rate is higher among women than men – 36 percent compared to 19 percent – and was higher among blacks than whites – 49 percent versus 14 percent, respectively.

It also found the rate was higher among gay men than heterosexual men – 32 percent compared to 18 percent.

“Genital herpes alone will not cause serious problems for most people,” said Dr. Julia Schillinger, Director of Surveillance for the Health Department’s Bureau of STD Prevention and Control and lead author of the study. “But some people will have painful genital sores and the infection fosters the spread of HIV. We advise New Yorkers to protect themselves and others. Using condoms consistently will help you avoid getting or spreading genital herpes.”

Read about it here.

[From me]

What happened to safe sex?  There is no such thing unless one practices abstinence or monogamy. People claim to practice it but it isn’t happening.  Isn’t it interesting that if we followed what the Bible says about sex in a marriage relationship we wouldn’t see these problems. 

What do you think?

[HT] My dad

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Jun 03 2008

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Sex in the City? What kind of message does it send?

[USA Today]

 

Sporting Manolo Blahnik heels and designer handbags, women powered Sex and the City this weekend to the biggest debut on record for a romantic comedy. The movie’s estimated $55.7 million take, the fifth-highest debut for an R-rated film, sent producers and Warner Bros. executives huddling to think up a sequel.

Sporting Manolo Blahnik heels and designer handbags, women powered Sex and the City this weekend to the biggest debut on record for a romantic comedy.

“We’re definitely open to another movie,” says Darren Star, creator of the series and producer of the film. “You always want your movie to connect, but no one could calculate how deeply people felt about this.”

 

Except, perhaps, the show’s rabid fans. Women, who made up 85% of the audience, flocked to theaters dressed as their favorite characters and turned the film into a nationwide ladies’ night out.

“We’ve been waiting years for this,” says Patricia Ackerman, 42, who went with four girlfriends dressed more like they were headed to a premiere than a Saturday matinee. “This is ourIndiana Jones.”

The movie nearly doubled its projections. Most analysts figured its R rating would hold the opening to about $30 million.

But most box office analysts are men.

“I don’t think most guys get it,” says Vonnessa Martin, 39, who caught the Saturday evening show with her best friend in Santa Monica. “This isn’t a movie that I really wanted my husband at. You want to see it with friends who know the characters and feel connected. We treated it like a formal dinner party.”

Read about it here.

[From me]

I admit, I don’t get it.  But I don’t think it has anything to do with being a man.  I think it has to do with the Holy Spirit.  Something about this show and movie are unsettling in my spirit. Call me a prude if you want, but this is pure trash! We live in a time where abortions happen daily.  STD’s are rampant.  AIDS is a world wide problem.  All of these occur because illicit sex.  Yet, Hollywood and stupid Americans watch this sleaze.  I’m amazed at how many Christians watch this trash.  Why?

What happened to responsible movies and TV shows when it comes to sex?  What about abstinence?  What message does this send to our youth?  Yes, I don’t get it.

What do you think?

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Apr 29 2008

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Great alternative for ‘Day of Silence’

[Christian Post]

As thousands of students across the nation participated in the “The Day of Silence” – a vow among students to remain silent throughout the day in recognition and protest of the perceived “silence faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people and their allies in schools” – Christians found themselves facing a dilemma.

Although many Christians were vocal in their opposition to what they claimed was an annual endorsement of homosexuality – many called for a boycott of the event, and a number of organizations even urged parents to keep their children away from school that day – other Christians looked for ways to reach out to their homosexual peers while emphasizing the loving teachings of Christ.

Dr. Warren Throckmorton, associate professor of Psychology at Grove City College, and Michael Frey, Western PA Director for College Ministries with Campus Crusade were both instrumental in organizing what they called the “Golden Rule Initiative,” an alternative non-confrontational approach to The Day of Silence, which took place Friday.

As part of the “Golden Rule Initiative,” students passed out cards throughout the day vowing to live in the manner of Christ’s teaching to “Do to others as you would have them do to you” in reference to the passage from Scripture. The cards also read, “As a follower of Christ, I believe that all people are created in the image of God and therefore deserve love and respect.”

Over a dozen schools and campus ministries across the nation participated in the Golden Rule Imitative, and responses from students were reportedly positive.

Read about it here.

[From me]

Sounds like a great alternative to me.  Next year I will encourage others to use this card. Great way to display the love of Jesus in a practical, loving way.

What do you think?

 

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